Top 10 Alternatives to therapy

Payal A Kumar
3 min readNov 3, 2023
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We live a world wherein therapy is being normalised more and more

I’ve had countless individuals casually open up about their therapy experiences, and I truly believe it’s fantastic to embrace self-improvement.

In my own personal journey, I’ve come to realize that for most everyday challenges, therapy might not be the necessary solution.

Instead, all you really need is to attune yourself to the symphony of life and harmonize with the frequencies it offers

Bonus: It’s cheaper than therapy and more long lasting

Becoming Self Aware

Knowing yourself is a journey, you will change, evolve and surprise yourself by how you react to life, situations and people

Knowing what triggers you, turns you on, gives you faith and what scared you away will go a long way.

Spend time knowing yourself which culminates to my second point

Spend time alone

There is a huge difference between alone-ness and loneliness (i’ve been on both ends personally)

Don’t jump from relationships, friends and hang out with people to share and fill space

learn to tune into silence, it will teach you more than anyone can

In this silence you will learn your true yearnings, don’t ignore that

It will be your guide, your mentor and life you up!

Meditation

Without a doubt meditation has become a modern form to inculcate as a daily practise.

When you meditate you cloud away the external and internal noise and just exist

Pure existence cleanses you, beyond what you can think

start with 5mins let the clatter clatter, slowly eventually it will simmer and you’ll emerge calmer, happier and more grateful for life

Journaling

When you let your thoughts flow, emotions and thoughts you didn’t know existed come through

you become clearer, lighter and deeper all by yourself!

Spending time in Nature

We are part of nature, our modern societies have distanced us from it

learn to listen to the whispers of trees, the crashing of waves or the chirping of birds

in them you’ll see the love that you never knew existed

or cuddle a dear, a rabbit and see the innocence and oneness that exists in them

on to more practical ones

Sports

Every challenge that I went through over the years, sport was always my saviour

When you play a sport you release the stress cortisol and get the right drive to excel and not give up or give in to signs that maybe cripple you

the dementors won’t get you if you become happy, sports makes you happy it’s a form of drive and movement combined

Learning a new skill

It’s never to late to learn, I started surfing at 30 and it’s been a gamechanger, I’ve seen it drift away all my negativity and seem like my life challenges are futile

start somewhere and you’ll end up somewhere beautiful

Decluttering your space

Your space can reflect your mind, too organised can relate to a control freak in you but striking that healthy balance it’s a must

you have five senses your eyes, smell and touch elements are happiest to see things in their right space

There is a reason why you feel negative around trash and happy at a hotel

Movement

move your body, release your emotions

We tend to stagnate energy in specifc spaces of our body the more we move it’s as if we’re shaking that energy away not letting it fester in our body

Yoga

Yoga — union of mind, body and soul is the ultimate practise one can do

at a level of masses it supports with nervous system regulation, enhanced calmness, lifted attention, patience and more

Yoga can be miraculous if you let it and stay consistent

Gratitude

What gratitude does is shift our perspectives from worries, fear low vibes towards what is working for us

that instant shift leads us to become happier, better versions of ourselves which in turn optimises our life choices and creates a flow of abundance

And honestly my last tips is this “every body, person or being is different find your own unique rhythm and flow with it”

Maybe dancing, chanting, singing, talking, art or something else will aid in your release find your jam, save your wallet and create a lifetime of joy

I’m here cheering you on!

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Payal A Kumar

Yogi & business owner - consultant for sustainable led brands, sharing my life journey through my lens, heart & soul {connect on @payalakumar}